March is National Eye Donor Month. I am proud to tell you that Brian was able to donate his corneas, despite the destruction of melanoma. There is no blood source to the corneas, so Brian qualified as a donor. I should receive follow-up information in a month or so regarding the actual successful transplant/s and also the destination of the unused portion of his eyes. They will likely be used for research, although there are a few options that the eyes can also be used for.
Brian wanted to be an organ donor. He had resigned himself that melanoma had destroyed so much, that there was nothing worth keeping. He asked me to investigate the possibility of him donating something to research, such as if they wanted to study his heart. His oncologist helped us with this, and felt that melanoma research is not to that point yet, and strongly felt that a donation like this would be used for teaching. Granted, those types of donations are very valuable; but not what Brian wanted. In the midst of digging up this info, we were informed by the Midwest Transplant Network of the opportunity to help a live recipient. I remember the day I told him, his eyes just lit up. He made me dig around a little more to verify that they really did want his corneas when he had battled melanoma, and the Heartland Lion's Eye Bank verified that his corneas were safe to transplant with zero risk of passing melanoma to someone else. Brian decided then that if this disease was going to kill him, he wanted to keep a part of himself here to help someone else. I will let you know what I find out when the information becomes available on his actual donation. The corneas had to be transplanted within 5-7 days, so by now, even in death, someone else's life has been touched.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
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As the mother of a daughter who received a heart/double-lung transplant 15 years ago, I can assure you that Brian's gift is indeed a most unselfish act and one that will be so cherished by the recipient. How amazing that even during his own suffering Brian could think of helping someone else. He truly was an angel here on earth and now your own in heaven. Thank you so much for sharing Brian's final gift with us.
kzbama from MPIP Board
Jenni,
I had no idea that you could donate the eyes even with melanoma. Keith is also an organ donor and thank you for letting us know this. I am going to start trying to find out if we can do the same thing. I am also still holding out for a miracle and hope we won't have to do this for along time. What a wonderful gift Brian gave. I want you to know you are still in my thoughts.
Suzan
Yet another sign of incredible love in the midst of incredible pain.
Love,
Jill
What a wonderful gift! Brian continues to be a blessing, just as he hoped. And thanks for posting that wonderful song - I've sent it to friends who are losing a loved one soon, it will be a blessing for them - all of you continue in my prayers - hugs & blessings g
Thank you & Brian for thinking of others when you were losing so much. You know how important I feel organ donation is, especially now that Andrew's kidney/pancreas transplant has brought so much to our family. And it is wonderful to know that Brian's living on in this way. God Bless...Cindy
Jenni,
What a wonderful gift that Brian left for someone. I also love the new look of the blog. What a beautiful picture of your family. I am sending prayers everyday for your family. I hope that Brian's funeral was nice and that you found peace there.
Thank you for sharing Brian's story with me.
Take care,
De Anne
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